Word. 'Till you have walked that mile…
True dat - and you beat me to it 
It is sad no doubt.
Betrayal always sucks. When you add the intimacy (an intensifier) element to it all bets are off regarding rational Cortex brain directed thoughts.
Look for more ralationship tensions, agressive behaviors any genders as the socialism (tolerance) being rammed down our throats by Brzezinski’s agenda, creates the anxiety as response to the unhappiness etc.
Your going to see a lot more of that as this Brzezinski’s nightmare plays out in our society. He is the architect of the dawning doom & gloom make no doubt. Look for a lot of infighting in families, relationships, racial tensions, riots etc.
If your smart, you’ll research it so you can understand it better.
^^^ that is the TRUTH.
I had a very strong suspicion that my ex was cheating, then one day while she was gone I found her diary.
Lots of descriptions and even some pictures of what she’d been doing. I’d wondered how she’d graduated Magna-Cum-Loudly - she’d been screwing her college profs.
So, I drove my happy ass to Kinko’s and made two copies of everything… one copy stayed in my safe at home, the other in the safe at work.
Then I lived out this video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fce-roCrPjU
…right down to the post-it notes. When I left that day, I left said song playing on the CD player, on Repeat. (She’d seen the video, so she ‘got it’.)
When I got home, her and 95% of her shit were gone. The song was still playing!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TGGA5aWxKKk
^^ ^^
Reading through this thread reminded me of this video from a while back.:laugh:
That’s some funny shit… but I would not have fucked my mother-in-law. :no:
That completely rocked big time.
Hilarious.
Thanks.
She married him, he married her.
Perhaps they should have given it a bit more thought. You can’t know everything about a person before you get married, but so many people don’t know any of the important stuff first.
Always a classic.
Confession.
Being a professional bachelor, my first thought when I read the title was “Oooo, dinner AND a show…!”
Yeah I hear ya on that one man. My wife is hot as hell. But the apple fell pretty far from the tree, cuz her mom Kinda reminds me of Dog The Bounty Hunter sometimes. So definately a no-go. As for what I would do if I found out she was cheating? I’m not too sure. But given how unpleasant the thought of it is, I can almost guarantee you that whatever I do would be pretty irrational. Thankfully though, we have a very strong relationship which has made for a rock solid marriage. But anyone that rushes into the latter, without first establishing the former, is setting themselves up for failure IMO.
Unless it’s a threesome. Then, game on.
Been married for 20 years and my first thought was “How was the food?”
i wonder why that’s so, but it does mirror what i’ve seen. my best friend had a huge wedding (his wife’s wish), and they’re considering divorce now. another friend bought a HUGE engagement ring, and they lasted two years.
my wife and i eloped; she didn’t want a wedding or engagement ring (doesn’t like jewelry), and she bought her own wedding band. we’ve been married 13 years and couldn’t be happier.
Sounds like the moron wanted to get caught.
I hope I’m smart enough to never cheat on my wife. She’s the best thing to ever happen to me. If I ever caught her cheating, I’ll simply walk away. It would hurt and it would hurt plenty to leave her, but I do love her and I’m not doing the drama thing again. I don’t go around looking to see if she’s cheating either. I’m confident cheating isn’t going to be a problem. If I’m wrong, so be it. If we’re together, it’s got to be because that’s what we want
That’s a great attitude.
My wife’s first husband was a real idiot which leaves me with some pretty low standards to live up to. If she has a car that runs, AC that works, food and bill collectors are not calling, she is happy. Except cheating. She won’t tolerate that and she won’t have to. That leaves me with a LOT of latitude.:D:D Her: “Is that a new gun?” Me: “Yeah, why?” Her: “Just wondering.”:D:D:D
I was having lunch with some old timers a while back and the conversation turned to “what’s the most valuable thing in your life?”
Without missing a beat, the two oldest guys, both married for over fifty years, said “my wife and my marriage, because I’ve put more effort and energy into building and sustaining that relationship than anything else.”
Makes a lot of sense, treating your marriage like an investment that you work at to build something of lasting and inestimable value.
As for the cheating, I’m of the opinion there are two basically two types of people in the relationship game: the fuckors and the fuckees. It’s best to stick with your own team. My second wife and I were both the “fuckees” the first time around and, having been handed the shit end of the stick, have no desire to inflict that kind of misery on anyone else. After fifteen years (and not all smooth sailing) we’re still together, still happy, and looking forward to more years ahead. I consider myself damn lucky in a lot of ways, but my wife is definitely the best of it.
A buddy got married years ago, big wedding, all the bells and whistles. The bride’s family is old money, very high class. Mike’s bride was a joker but this time she out did herself. Mike had a girlfriend some years previous, a real hotty and very, very sexy. Mike had lost contact with her and did not know she had gotten married and was very, very pregnant. His bride, Nancy arranged for this woman to show up at the rehearsal dinner. She stormed in shrieking “Where is that son of a bitch?” Walked over to Mike and began loudly informing him that married or not to “this PERSON” (pointing at Nancy) he was going to meet every obligation, pay every penny for “OUR CHILD”. She then stalked out leaving Mike to attempt to explain what everyone present but him knew was a joke. He was not able to make a very persuasive explanation. After about two minutes of trying the ex-girlfriend and her husband came back in the room and we all got a good laugh. I don’t think Mike really thought it was funny but he put up a good pretense.
^^^DAYUM!!!