Question for Dad's with Boys

Moreso than in the past, women now chase the players who won’t commit or provide. Then they’re angry that they can’t find good men. It’s the choices they’re making, not the lack of good men.

Many women do. Many don’t.

The ones that don’t are often the ones the “regular” guys aren’t paying attention to because they only want the hottie who doesn’t know / care he exists.

The beautiful people have different problems than the regular (and less desirable) people. I think those groups have to separated in these conversations.

The culture of Instant Gratification rather than working to build something long term doesn’t help either.

Statistically, this is not a correct generalization. Women are far pickier than men when it comes to the opposite sex. Dating app statistics demonstrate this. Depending on the app, men swipe right on 46% to 70% of female profiles. Women swipe right on 5% to 15% of male profiles. As a result, men are roughly six times more likely to like a profile than women. Men have match rates of 1% to 3%. Women have match rates of 30% to 41%.

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I will say this as it somewhat blends in to this Shane Gillis was 100% correct about Women in the Gym.
And whatever you do, don’t stop off to buy a gallon of Milk and a Loaf of Bread while dressed like that.

You’re right.

I’ll chalk that up to the difference between what guys say, (“Pff…she’s not hot enough for me.”) and what they do. (“I throw myself at every woman, it’s a numbers game.”)

So? What’s the problem with how they dress? Women are prettier than men. It’s okay to be a little envious.

Because it’s disrespectful,???
If I want to be successful in Business, I wear a Suit, Construction, I wear jeans a Carhart and all my PPE, If I’m a Soldier, I wear my Cammies.
If I’m a 42 year old MILF from the Suburbs, and having some sort of emotional problems and suddenly need validation, so I decided I want to dress like half a Hooker…? If that’s the case…
Dress like the Lady in the lower right hand corner.
Also;
It’s usually not the Women you want to see scantily clad that you actually get to see scantily clad, really it isn’t.

Who is she being disrespectful to by wearing revealing clothes at the gym?

Her boyfriend/husband if she has one and also herself. That said, that’s not the primary problem. The primary problem is that many dress provocatively to get attention and then act offended when they get that attention from guys they don’t desire. If they get attention from guys they desire, they don’t get upset.

I don’t care if they dress like that in the gym. They just need to understand that wearing a “catch me fuck me” outfit is going to draw attention of the male gaze. If I wore a banana hammock to the gym I would expect people to stare at me, I shouldn’t get mad when they do.

So ladies, don’t get mad when your anatomy is admired because you have it on clear display.

Now I do get furiously angry when these silly bitches are camped out in the squat rack, or on a machine doing nonsense exercises that don’t require that equipment while they film themselves or take photos of themselves. It’s selfish and disrespectful to everyone else, and it should be legal grounds to kill them. The same applies to dudes who do stuff like that, for example doing curls in the squat rack should result in being flayed alive. Seeing as how no laws will be passed allowing this, all of these people should be mocked, heckled, and ridiculed mercilessly at a minimum.

I no longer lift in a local gym mostly because of the idiotic antics of gym shark wearing chicks, not because they weren’t fun to look at (and didn’t seem to mind the attention at all) but because they were constantly taking up equipment that they were not using for its intended purpose that others specifically needed, when other equipment was available that could do what they wanted.

Take a look, then leave them alone. Easy.

Men should let women shame eachother if they want to. We shouldn’t be involved in that. I’m against Sharia.

Yea.
Have a gym at work. It’s rare but a guy sitting on equipment, not using it, on his phone, pisses me off.
If i want to use it I’ll give him a couple min., but then ask cordially if he’s using it. They get it & move. Haven’t had a problem yet.

I’m against Sharia.
That’s the thing, totally voluntary isn’t it? I don’t want your “Right to Dress Like a Whore” taken away from you.
You Go Girl, this is so empowering, but you see it isn’t. It actually takes power away from them.
So, I don’t care,
but I care when your out in public.
You see if your shorts are flesh colored and so tight that I can see what appears to be a Camel Toe wearing and undersized Shower Shoe or I look over and suddenly desire a sloppy Roast Beef Sandwich at Arby’s your pants are too tight.

It disrespects me and everyone with me, adds nothing but Drama to the Day and interrupts the civil flow of Traffic and Commerce and your neighbors and kids are going to see you.
And I hope the Bullies at school are Merciless to your Children.

Because when you are a Business Man, you wear a Suit, When you are a Construction Worker you wear Jeans and a Carhart and all of your PPE, Whyen you are a Soldier you wear Cammies.
And When you are a Whore you Dress like a Whore.

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I have a gym at work too, at least at the away from home terminal hotel. Pretty nice one, better than the local gyms in my small town.

No problems there, but I know almost everyone including the females and no one is acting stupid in there.

We work out and give each other shit, and egg each other on.

Take a look. Leave them alone. HAH!

The amount of video on the internet of these attention whores, shaming guys they didn’t think were worthy to look at them while they are wearing see through camel toe advertisement is disgusting.

There is a guy with a social media platform that brings attention to these videos.

SNL did a skit on this and it is so true.

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You are not typical Gen X. You are the opposite of typical Gen X. Who are you kidding? GTFOH.

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Wear your PPE?

Fucking safety man everywhere!

I’ll wear safety toe boots, work gloves, ear protection as needed, safety glasses (aka sun glasses) as needed, and I might even be bothered to wear long sleeves if needed in warm weather for some tasks.

I draw the line at reflective vests. A reflective vest isn’t saving me from a locomotive. It just makes it easier to pick me out on the event recorder if I get run over. In the meantime it snags on everything all the time, looks ridiculous, and takes up room in my rucksack.

Want to know how to stay safe as a railroader working train service? Don’t foul the track. Pretty straightforward. If you’re on or near the ties, and you don’t have communication that you’re there working on something, you’re wrong. Fix it.

I used to do all types of work on Abrams Tanks and one day they came in and handed us all new coveralls. They weren’t Bad coverall’s it’s just that they had almost a rappelling harness sewn in to them.
So the Story goes Jim was a Big Ol’ Fat Boy and one day when everyone goes to lunch, Jim doesn’t show up. Now Jim being a Big Ol Fat Boy and missing Lunch don’t add up.
So they go look in Jim’s Tank and He’s dead as a Door Nail, but everyone wants to pull Big Jim out and give him CPR.
No one at work could get him out of the Tank, The EMT’s couldn’t get big Jim out of that loaders Hatch and when the Fire Department showed up they rigged up a body sling and used the overhead crane to lift him out… Like a Champagne Cork !

So when your balls get extra sweaty in the Summer because your essentially wearing a rappelling harness around your dork, just scratch yer Balls and think of Big Jim.

Yeah I had a discussion with some MP’s in Baghdad about wearing a Road Guard Vest when I run at night.
I tried to explain to him, “You guys all wear thes Vests 24/7 right?” “They all know you wear Road Guard Vests, Right?” See my Logic here Buddy?
They will shoot People with Road Guard Vests First..