Yes this platform is trash. You have to highlight the text in the post, the then menu pops up with the option to quote it.
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It’s still funny, but the great thing about that organ is how it always returns to original size eventually.
Unless of course it gets stretched 4 inches in diameter by a babies head. Then it may or may not.
I didn’t say anything of the sort. A woman doesn’t have to insert %icks or toys or whatever in herself to know her body.
You’ve made an assumption that you have to have sex with a woman in order to be emotionally intimate, communicate and feel emotions with her. That’s not the case. With a woman who respects herself, you can have that and take it to the next level emotionally & physically when you’re united in marriage. There are plenty of women who’ll give themselves up easily. Most of them are not capable of real emotional intimatcy.
Sure, but not equally. Social status and desirability by others of the same sex is far more important to women that it is to men. These are secondary factors for men. Physical attraction, loyalty, kindness, etc. are much more important to men.
There certainly can be exceptions, but when it comes to most women, you’re wrong. Failed relationships / easy physical intimacy impacts the mental wellbeing of women far more than men. Women don’t get better with more relationships. They get increased levels of depression, increased anxiety and less overall happiness. These are directly correlated with the collapse of marriage rates, increased divorces and living on their own.
Men care because a woman who has more sexual partners is more likely to be unfaithful and have a disease than one who has had fewer. She’s also more likely to lie about paternity. Women know this. That’s why so many lie about their sexual history.
You don’t have to be religious to see what’s going on. We’re now living in a population collapse in Western countries caused primarily by feminism, declining Christianity rates and the welfare state.
All this is related to the OP’s original question. For young men, it’s vitally important to explain to them the characteristics of women who are to be avoided. Tell them to pursue the ones who respect their bodies and don’t put their %icks in crazy.
You should pay attention to what women say. THEY decide who gets laid, who gets a relationship, who gets born, and who doesn’t.
That’s a really Bad way to look at it and it kind of ruins any sort of respect I have for the Woman.
I see a petulant six year old stamping her foot at me saying “I decide”. and one of the Biggest problems our Society has is that Women are not held accountable
You boys do what ya want. My wife gave me a great blow job last night.
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Jeez guys, take it easy. This is a very individual thing, and everyone has their own priorities.
Now me, I’ve always been on Ron’s side of the equation, probably further. I don’t need to be the first to plant my flag. Hell, I don’t even need to be the first today. Not a thing for me. I know I’m a bit freaky and I don’t mind a woman who feels the same. To each their own.
And sure a high bodycount can be a sign of some negative personality traits, but it doesn’t have to be. Plenty of outwardly staid women cheat and can be crappy people too.
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I get those from my Wife, too. I’m doing something right by her. Or at least I’m clean, fit, and available. 
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[B][i]Let’s keep it clean, gentlemen.[/b][/i]
Yep. I know two women today with faily low body counts that are married. One had a boyfriend for two years. The other it’s been about 4 years, ongoing.
They tell me all about it because I’m good at making friends with women, they can trust me. For one of the women her Christian faith is important to her. But hey, she has other emotional & physical needs, too.
No, the husbands have no idea. Neither woman feels safe leaving. One is working on getting out. The other, still with a side guy, is content with the status quo.
That’s just two I’m thinking of right now. Boys should know that if a woman doesn’t consider you her kind, caring, and at least egalitarian friend, she will drop you or bring in another guy to get what’s lacking.
To talk about the original topic, my nephew, now an adult, is sufficiently understanding of how taking advantage of a woman can land him in prison at worse, destroy his career at least.
He got some bad teachings from his Dad & church when he was younger, unfortunately. He doesn’t think much of women & has never been close to one. Maybe he’ll change, maybe not..
The Average age for a first Marriage is now 28 for Females and 30 for Males.
I don’t know how many 28 year old vigins are out there but, usually I can tell enough about a Woman after a couple of hours and a meal to know an approximatly what I’m dealing with.
What I’ve never got though was total honesty, you’re going to slowly learrn about those things as time goes on.
You’re not going to find out She’s 20+K in Student Loan Debt, you’re not going to know about the car that got repo’ed. If there’s a kid and a Orthadontist there’s that too !
So, it doesn’t get easier.
I think optimately if you married relatively young and had a couple of Kids and planned for the Long Haul a couple can easily do it. Nobody however is patient nor do they want to delay gratification.
28y/o female virgin. There’s reasons for that… none of them appealing to me.
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They should also know that there ARE women who will only keep you as a backup plan until they find Mr. Exciting, then dump you like a chump. And that’s not even getting into the walking bags of entitlement who see a guy as just a living ATM…
On average, far more problems come from women having had more sexual partners than not having had any.
I was speaking about the number of failed relationships. Women tend to carry the emotional baggage of failed relationships with them. To the OP’s question, tell your sons if a woman talks about her narcissistic or toxic X(s), then get away. You’ll be the next on her list because she lacks good judgement and doesn’t take accountability.
No. Pay attention to what they do because they’re often two different things. Many women don’t know why they’ll feel or do what they do. Yes, they absolutely decide who gets laid. Even an ugly chick can get some at a moment’s notice. However, men generally hold the keys to the relationships. These ugly (outside and in) chicks mistakenly think that they can get a man who will sleep with them. For me, a sleeper doesn’t equal a keeper.
Very true. Again to the OP’s question, a woman holding herself accountable is a major green flag. Most don’t. On a related note, the most arousing word that a woman hears is No.
If a woman claims to be Christian and is having an affair, she’s just fooling herself.
Most women do not marry the man that they really want. They marry the man they could get who can provide. Some of them will use unsuspecting men for their resources and get their attention & validation from other guys on the side. Young men need to be honest with themselves before asking a woman to marry them. Are you her first choice? Did she spend her late teens and most of her 20’s getting plowed and now wants to find a provider to take care of her? Guys who never had much luck with women need to be especially wary.
My wife was a virgin when we married at 25. When we first started dating four years earlier, I simply couldn’t believe that she had held out, especially given how hot she was (still is for her age). She explained to me that she was only going to have sex with her husband and the only way to guarantee that would be to wait until she was married. It’s sound logic. I honestly thought that she’d eventually give in to me like other women had, but she didn’t. She wasn’t using sex as a weapon. She just wouldn’t be able to live with herself if she went against her Christian faith. There was nothing wrong with her. She says that if something happens to me, she’ll never remarry. The thought of having sex with another man makes her sick. Her three best friends were also virgins when they married in their mid 20’s.
In the 1920’s, about 80% of women were virgins when they got married. By 1970 it was down to 50%. By 1990 it was down to 5%. (Now the rates have gone up some.) This decline inversely correlates to female depression, unhappiness, divorce and the decline of people living in traditional families. Overall, women are simply not happier and better off when they more freely give themselves to men.
It’s best to form a close relationship with a woman as early as possible. That way you go through young adulthood together.
It’s tough, though. Because kids & young adults are even less wise than older adults.
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There are those but they aren’t super common.
Most women won’t drop a guy until she’s put up with quite a bit, there’s no hope he’s going to get better, and there is a substantially better option for her.
Most women stay with a guy too long. Less and less today, though.
That isn’t what’s causing them to be less happy. What’s causing that are the same issues affecting everyone else in our dystopian modernity: No rule of law, the expenses of life / healthcare, etc.
Trying to lock down and / or shame women isn’t going to help things.
About deciding who’s in a relationship: That’s women. They end them the most.
Yes, there are a few extremely desirable men who get to pick & choose thier women, but that’s not the norm. Not every guy is the Rock, a Senator, CEO of a Fortune 500 Co., or handsome Formula 1 driver.
this. 1,000%.
This would have saved me from the divorce I just went thru after 20 something years.