My hillybilly way is tightening it on the ground using the grip as a leverage point against the force of the wrench. Then stake it. The grip area is the stoutest part of the lower receiver anyway.
For as many times as you do this (hopefully once), I don’t see any problems with it. I’ve always tightened by hand, no need to use a wrench if you know what you’re doing. Don’t hulk it down and break it, but make sure it’s tight.
I have one of these that I use for installing triggers and magazine catches but I would not trust it to keep a lower receiver safe from 40 ft-lbs of torque.
Ive used the magazine type to install several receiver extensions. Use your other hand to support the extension and counteract the torque and don’t get crazy with it, you will be fine.
I use a set of aluminum vice jaw inserts with rubber faces that have fabric in them. The facing is like the material used in conveyer belts. I place the jaws on the lower across the solid area near the selector above the grip. I don’t like the idea of using the mag well to hold the lower for any procedure involving force on the lower.
I’d use a mag well block if I had a choice. Being at the time I didn’t, I used 7/8oz leather in the vise jaws and a fluffy towel around the lower which was still carefully placed to remove the nut. To reinstall I used some rubber gum pads that I used for pressing holsters under the lower while standing with my socked foot on the lower so it wouldn’t rotate when torque. Not very sophisticated but it got the job done.
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I’ve actually been thinking of doing this. Use a casting kit/Alumilite. When I have some time I’ll see if I can knock that project out.
I use the magwell blocks that go into the vice to hand tighten the castle nut. Then I use the wrench on the castle nut and my padded shop floor for the pistol grip to push against/ Or I use an old crappy carbine stock, put that on the buffer tube and put that stock in the vice on the bench with the receiver resting on the bench.
I’ve had great luck with the NoMar plastic vise pieces and ordered them on Amazon. I have the upper, lower, and just got the barrel clamps also last week. Used the barrel clamp to punch a Noveske gas block in and it worked great. The upper and lower blocks have been used to build a few custom ARs and they worked really well.