Umm…no. Did Obama say that? That sounds like something that he would say.
Perhaps the sentiment that you are looking for is that the sacrifices of those who lay down their lives in defense of their nation are equal; notice the uniformity of headstones in our national cemeteries. However, I’m not the equal of Marcus Lutrell, Pat Rogers, or LAV because I pulled a trigger a few times. In addition, the military, like any large organization, has its fair share of criminals and slugs who manage to retain their less desirable qualities long after getting a CAB/ECIB.