As I write this, my children are asleep in their room, Loretta Lynn is on the stereo, and my wife is out on a date with a man named Paulo. It’s her second date this week; her fourth this month so far. If it goes like the others, she’ll come home in the middle of the night, crawl into bed beside me, and tell me all about how she and Paulo had sex.
The sex is the easy part, the fun part. It’s what the sex connects to, stands for, reveals that can be difficult. I don’t want her to fall in love with anyone else, and every time she goes on a date, I confront the possibility that she might.
It took two attempts before I could make it through the article, but I thought you might like a look at this.
I think this pretty much outlines the mindset of a lot of really weak beta males out there and it says a lot about our society as a whole…Or perhaps a hole…
Heh, I have some stories about open marriages (which somehow usually means open for the wife, not the man…because he’s usually AFC)
I can assure you, they are very “normal” dudes. Usually have well paying, successful careers and are dedicated family folks. Not “mass murderers”, just get off on being emasculated.
If any of you live in Walnut Creek, CA I can put in a good word for you to my former neighbor.
P.S. Next time you’re out at a bar look for anklets.
I blame this on a society that seems to have handed over the Leadership of Families and the raising of boys in to young Men to single Mom’s.
This is a natural extension of taking every opportunity to remove any sort of masculine or testosterone driven event out of a young boy to man’s life.
Well, there is some hope. If you read some of the comments, quite a few of the readers seemed to be put off by this article, and this is the Huffington Post.
Married people have been stepping out on each other for as long as marriage has existed.
This guy happens to justify it to himself under the construct of feminism… and apparently spends a lot of time pondering gender roles and thinking Womyn’s Study thoughts…
He’s probably banging every young mommy in the neighborhood and watching Netflix while his chick brings home the cash.
It’s the tone of the article: Basically, that it’s selfish, chauvinistic, mentally and physically unhealthy, and unfair to demand your wife to be faithful to you. Yeah, they have the right to live this lifestyle if they want. It is America. However, I also have the right to say that I believe it’s immoral, unhealthy, and just plain ****ed up to live like that, I think they’re horrible people for raising kids in a household like that, and if they don’t like my opinion, tough shit.
I could care less about these people’s lifestile, but just the way the article war written makes me want to kick this guy where his testicles used to be.
The one good thing is that the more people like this exist the easier it will be for us to survive the Zombies since they will either be eaten or crying in their basements.
I definitely didn’t get that tone but ok maybe it’s just me. I’ll go along with that.
Otherwise it’s only unhealthy and immortal to you (the general you). If people want to screw sideways or have threesomes or foursomes that’s their choice, their likes and desires. Personally I find the whole marriage thing retarded but if you like it more power to you, who am I to tell you you’re wrong?!?!
I’m an advocate of live and let live, you have a “lifestyle” you go ahead and go for it.
What I found disturbing was that this guy has pretty much set aside any hope he has of being a Man, any hope for his marriage and has pretty much decided to become a fat house wife while the chick he is married to runs him over again and again.
He gave up and yes, “where his testicles used to be” is exactly right.
By becoming her cuckold and apparently being proud of it, he’s pretty much given up on his marriage, his kids and any sort of self respect he might still have left. It’s only a matter of time and he hasn’t woke up yet.
I do however bet he wins custody of his skinny jeans and the fedora collection.
It does work both ways and, yes, I too enjoy sexual carte blanche. I just don’t use mine as much as my wife uses hers.
I actually wouldn’t be surprised if this were some stunt related to gender roles and norming… and the author comes back in a month with an article like “Both the male and female subjects in my article were people I interviewed, with gender reversed. This scenario describes 60% of all marriages in the US.”
…or something like that.
The guy has basically no previous web presence, and his provocative article has been making the rounds in both the right wing blogosphere and the feminist web- both of whom are discussing his work line for line.
He’ll probably turn himself into some kind of Ann Coulter side show clown and make millions of dollars off it. Who knows if he’s even a real person?
Just for clarity sake, let’s use the quote function for pulls from the article. For a second there I was really confused as to whose ‘voice’ that was written in.
Ankle bracelets with their names upside down on them?
I think I’m going to call BS on the whole Huffington Post article. Quite frankly, I don’t think it was written by a man at all even if the said man was a omega male cuckold. Here are my reasons why:
Overall flow of the article was off. If you took out the gender identifying pronouns and authors name and read through it I bet most people would say it was written by a women.
Getting drunk or drowning your sorrows with red wine. I’m in my mid 30s and have yet ran across a man who wants to get drunk or trashed on red wine. Most guys would pick beer or the hard stuff.
No pride at all. Although many men are getting more emasculated each day, I still don’t know anyone who would proudly advertise that they are ok with being a cuckold.
Wife having affairs with all of the ideal types from the feminist narrative. Getting the exotic dick from Paulo and also seeing the architect/designer which is a feminist fantasy even though an average architect probably makes $50K to $60K unless they are a principle of a firm.
Notion of mid 30s women are hitting their sexual prime. Again that is chick talk, never came across any man who said middle aged women are hotter/more desirable than a women at 20.
I simply don’t think this is a real article was written by a legitimate man and should be filed away as simply liberal feminist propaganda.
My penis crawled inside my body reading this article. It must work for him, or he’s lying to look like a white knight and is a hair-trigger away from painting the walls with gray matter. Most likely though, he is just trying to look progressive while his wife gets slayed by whomever she chooses. To each their own though. What happens in your bedroom is none of my business. I just hope it doesn’t negatively effect their kids.
