Read the book “Patriots,” and while it’s quite good for a novel and for giving you some considerations you may have overlooked in your own plan, it’s also quite implausible for most Americans.
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They just happened to luck into meeting each other early on enough in life to be close friends with all the same idea (preparation), and they had a decade to prepare with, as I can gather, fairly high paying jobs. Paying both the bills AND setting up what they did, I don’t think I could do in a decade.
As for the government trying to take an interest in those types, they really would have missed “the group” (the main characters) because, aside from running around their private property out of sight from everyone, they didn’t do anything “militia like” before the EOTWAWKI. They didn’t recruit, they didn’t seek attention, and they didn’t get politically involved. Realistically, I find the “Templars” group in the novel to be far less likely to have evaded detection, and would expect any such group in the real world to be at least somewhat monitored.
That, and I just don’t buy ragtag guys with guns being able to push out the black helicopter invading types entirely out of the US, and then going on to “free” Canada and start in Europe. I’d see maybe CONUS, maybe but more likely just regionalized sections of the US.
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Moving to the real world…
In my current situation, I have little say in the matter. My only option is to BUG IN, and hope for the best.
As a current best practice (and a realistically affordable one), I try to keep on hand enough provisions to last a few weeks to perhaps a month, as even in non-EOTW scenarios it’s been shown to be prudent (natural disasters that shut down the grid for an unknown amount of time regionally, such as severe snowstorms, bad string of tornados, flooding, hurricanes, etc). Beyond that, I’m in trouble.
I live in a suburb of the Minneapolis-St.Paul metro area, so it would really, really suck to be caught in events like the ones depicted in the novel, but I really have nowhere to go. I’m a single guy, no wife/girlfriend and no kids. My parents live in the same metro area (so little advantage aside from pooling resources), and I wouldn’t trust any of my other extended family to do anything but suck down my supplies so they’re out on their own in my mind. The few friends I have that could do at least some good are in other states.
Lastly, the neighborhood. I consider myself an island here - the rest of these people’s idea of preparation is rolling out the welcome mat for FEMA/the National Guard. I’m quite sure my one month’s of stuff will look awfully tempting to any of them, even those who’d join an official neighborhood watch.