I’ve posted this before, but there is a hierarchy of preparedness.
The guy that has a semi-trailer generator in his backyard and 18 barrels of rice in his basement, but is 200 lbs overweight, smokes and drinks like a fish, and doesn’t wear his seatbelt when driving is not prepared. Yes, on some internet forums he will be viewed as a god, but he is not prepared.
I tend to think of all possible causes of death as an “attack”, and take steps to minimize my likelihood of falling victim to said attack. Disease is the most likely thing to attack an American, and so I try to keep healthy, excercise, eat right, etc. to prepare for that attack. Anybody can get cancer, but the guy that’s maintained a healthy lifestyle is much better PREPARED to beat it.
Accidents are next, so I try to avoid situations that are inherently dangerous, wear my seatbelt while driving, etc. Yes, they are called “accidents” for a reason, and one can happen to anyone, but the person that was wearing his seatbelt and driving a car with airbags is much better PREPARED to survive it.
Preparing for things like muggings, natural disasters, riots, war/invasion, etc. are further down the list both in priority and in necessity. There are also things that you can do to “avoid” that will reduce the need to “prepare”. Avoiding high-crime areas, living in safer regions, avoiding large cities, etc. all go a long way towards avoiding potential attacks, and reduce the need to “prepare” greatly.
All of that said, it doesn’t mean that I don’t carry a gun every day, attend training classes, keep a case of MREs, bottled water, and propane at the house, etc. It just means that I choose to take care of the most likely threats first before I address the more outlandish.
Unfortunately most people don’t consider eating healthy, excercising, and wearing a seatbelt to be as “fun” or “cool” as the rest of the stuff.
Interestingly, people discuss mindset in terms of training and fighting, but it’s really a much broader issue that extends to all aspects of life and preparedness and survivability.