I owe some apologies....

Gentlemen,
I’ve recently discovered a situation, that is still apparently unfolding, that involves this forum, (and one other I think), as well as some of the members here.
I recently traveled out of town with work this past two weeks, and I have recently returned to find out that numerous posts were made on this forum (and even a thread or two was started) without my knowing. I had very limited internet access while out of town, and the few times I actually did login, I didn’t notice anything out of the norm. Not even sure if I got on this forum? Of course, while out of town, I do not receive email notification of subscribed threads, as I do when I’m home.
However, what finally tipped me off, was some PM’s I found in my inbox, when I returned home late Fri evening.
It seems that my young 16 yr old nephew (who I introduced to firearms forums a while back, in an attempt to get him involved with shooting sports), has taken it upon himself to start posting under my name, and even sending out PM’s. I’m still trying to get to the bottom of this, but apparently he has pissed someone off- (or possibly more than just someone).
While my SENT PM’s were obviously deleted by him, there were still a couple PM’s that were RECEIVED PM’s, and this is what first alerted me to the situation.
I then did a search and found a number of posts and even a thread or two started that were unbeknownst to me.
My sister and her child (my 16yr old nephew), were constantly over here at my home housesitting, and feeding the pets while I was away. She actually hangs out alot during the day, as some of her close friends live right next door to me, and she likes being here. The downside is that my nephew has apparently been sneaking into the master bedroom, using my computer, and getting into my stuff. (yes, all the firearms are locked up). This is the first time he’s ever done something like this at MY house, and it’s only because I was away. He does however, have a history of similar actions, just not at MY house. Had I known he had even quit working his summer job, and was going to be with my sister, I would have NOT given him permission to be here while I was away…
In the past, I’ve encouraged him to get online and read the forums about firearms, bowhunting, motorcycles, etc, but this is the first time, I’ve seen him do something like this. He doesn’t have his own computer at home, so he doesn’t usually register with a forum, or post on the forums.
What this boils down to, is the fact that while he’s a good boy for the most part, he gets absolutely ZERO discipline (except when he’s with me). Not ONE of my sisters 4 children get even the SLIGHTEST bit of discipline/punishment.
I’ve fought with my sister for years about this.
Anyhow, what’s important here is that I owe some of you an apology -(and possibly more? of you, and I just don’t know it?) I extend my full apology to any and all of you, who might possibly have received rude, or disrespectful emails/PM’s or posts.
I assure everyone, that this will NEVER happen again. I am remodeling this house, and the door locks were getting changed anyway, and my nephew will never again use my computer again, with OR without my permission. Unfortunately, he will not receive the punishment he deserves, in fact, he won’t receive any punishment at all, but I WILL make hime apologize to anyone who deserves it.
I personally am responsible for this mishap, and take full responsibility. I should have put a functional door lock on the master bedroom.
I guess I could have logged out, but honestly, I never log out of the forums, since I’m normally the only one using my computer.
Again, my FULL apology to ANYONE who deserves it, and rest assured this will not happen again.
I will be sending out a couple PM’s to those who deserve an apology…

One more thing to mention I almost forgot. I also had an email in my inbox, that was quite odd to say the least. Here is a copied and pasted version of it. It basically said “Mail Delivery Subsystem, Returned Mail”, or something like that, and it also had an ATTACHMENT with it. The attachment has TWO seperate options to choose, neither of which I’ve read. One says: “ATT00009.dat”, and other part of the attachment says “New Private Msg at M4Carbine.net”.
Anyone know what this email is? NEVER seen one like it before, and I’m not sure if I should open the attachments or not???
Note, Update - I just have just found out this was nothing to do with the above situation. Apparently a sent email to another fourm member, was rejected, and sent back to me I think. Not sure why? , but it had nothing to do with the above situation.
Thank you gentlemen…

It’s all good Paul just remember to password protect your PC next time. No telling what kind of Havoc a 16yr old boy can cause on a PC when left alone…

Yeah, you’re right, and thank you for the kind words Voodoochild. I was really hoping you guys would be cool about it.
Thanks again, really.

I only hope the other guys are as understanding as you…

Forgive me, but my experience as an investigator and your previous comments both on and off line are too similar for me to accept this without proof.
As that isn’t going to happen, you will remain on my NFE list.

I’ll be happy to post the PM’s you sent me- the ones that you may be alleging were sent by another. The similarities in patterns are sufficient for my purposes of course.
I don’t believe in coincidences, though they might occur. And while its possible that your nephew at 16 did access your computer and mimic you (an excellent job, and certainly not expressing himself as a 16 yr old might, it is also possible that the dog ate your homework when you were in the 7th grade.

But i doubt it.

Well my Gosh. I’m not sure I know what to say to that? I don’t really understand for what reason anyone would care to put such effort into such minor issue.
I cannot even fathom that accusation. Realizing that if I stand up to defend myself as I should in a situation such as this, I will probably get banned from the forum, so I will bite my lip. Sad, but true.
I only posted this thread to come clean about what happened, and not to further escalate any situation that exists.
All I can offer is my apology for anything that may have happened. Obviously, something happened while I was away, or I would not have had private messages from others in my inbox.
Thank you to the members who have accepted my apology, and moved on.
I was raised to Forgive and Forget. This is how I will treat others, because it’s exactly how I would like to be treated in return.
I can only offer my word, as my word is all I’ve got.

I don’t have a dog in this “fight”, but the above is EXACTLY the first thing I thought when I read this.

I don’t think anybody cares Paul; when you’re in a hole of your own making, just stop digging.

I really don’t care, but consider this a nice cuddly notice of my witnessing the ensuing banination. Pat, though you seem not to have much faith in 16 year olds, they are a sly sneaky bunch and can certainly act like adults, that is if they want to.

I have arrested enough 16-13 year olds for robbery, assault with guns/ knives and the like to have a clear understanding as to what they can, and can’t do.

Pretty much how i feel about adults too:D

I don’t have a dog in this fight either. But it seems to me, that what Paul is saying can be verified one way or another by:

  1. Obtaining the date and times that said PMs were sent. This should easily be obtainable by the forum mods or from those who received the PMs.
  2. An M4Carbine.net moderator can probably verify what IP Address these PMs came from (IE: Paul’s home account).
  3. Paul can provide proof that he was away from his home during the period of the PMs.

This is assuming that there is sufficient need for putting forth this much effort to prove or disprove the story. :slight_smile:

Funny thing. I was on an internet forum and we were chatting about mountain bikes. Some of them on the said forum were aware of my habits and consistencies. I did this from work once, had to slip out to help a member of the public and during that time a fellow officer thought it’d be funny to enter, “I’m so horny”. When I returned a few moments later, I backed up the messages on the chat site and found that people were asking me what I meant by that and comments like “WTF???” When I read what my buddy had done, I applogized right away and explained my predicament. They knew it wasn’t consistent with my behaviour and the language I use. To make a long story short, I don’t leave myself logged in anywhere. Since what I do for a living is listen to people lie to me all day long, I’m with Mr. Rogers on this one and will be cautious. Frankly, I don’t care. If you wanna get along, treat our industry guys with the respect they deserve and “stay in your lane”. If you can do this, things will sort themselves out.

Paul - Stop digging yourself into a bigger hole.

Mojo58 - We can discuss mountain bikes on here as well! :smiley:

Not to be a dick or anything Mr. Cataldo, but you’re full of shit.