Super advice ghostman.
Hang in there man.
I hope things take a turn for the better now, ghostman.
You know why divorce is so expensive?
Because it’s worth it. 
I have my house back, I have my dog back, I’ve still got my guns, and my children love me.
Life is pretty damn awesome.
Here’s to you Ghostman: 1 double of Abundah cask strength scotch straight up in lead crystal no ice. Followed by a Ranger IPA.
I too am in the midst of a divorce and feel your pain…or maybe not…hell I don’t feel anything…must be the Abundah!!! Hang in there it will all work out.
It sure as hell isn’t easy, brother. If kids are involved it will be 1000 times more complicated and difficult. Its not impossible. These guys here are the best for support.
The best piece of advice I can give, is to make time for yourself. Have fun. That’s the one area of my “recovery,” that I have had difficulty with. I work 100+ hour weeks on the road every week, and watch my kids on the weekend. I love my kids, and they are fun as hell, but it does not count. “Me time,” goes a long way for morale.
Good luck.
You are never free of them. 3 Years later and I am still dealing with her crap.
Congrats brother, my ex-wife seems like a past life to me. Things go up from here. I’m about to marry #2, I am over fed, over sexed, and happier than I have ever been with anyone. All she wanted for graduation was a OD G19, I was sold!
Just don’t go down a destructive path, some fall easy this way.
Life is great, isn’t it?
Look at it as a New Chapter in life my friend. Don’t dwell on the negatives and losses, just look FORWARD to the new opportunities this opens up for you in life. Finances are a mess for awhile usually, but the peace of mind without the STRESS of a bad relationship, etc is gone and you can’t put a price on that. No more bitching that you work too much, drink too much beer, buy too many guns or ammo, stink like a cigar, spend too much time on M4C, or whatever.
Make plans or a bucket list or whatever you wanna call it. When you’re able treat yourself to a hunting trip, or a week-long shooting school, etc. This is now time for YOU, so be a bit selfish and treat yourself to some happiness for a change.
Look at it as a new lease on life…
Christ its reading horror stories like this and seeing what some of my buddies have gone through make me give thanks for my wife.
Wait hold on now…you want a woman that will do porn!
just not in front of a camera…for money…for everyone else to see!:no:
Date a girl who does porn professionally and see if you’re still singing the same song.
Don’t even bother asking who it was.
Good on ya. Now go fold up some 20-something and knock the bottom out of it, never call her again, and continue to enjoy your newfound freedom.
Sometimes takes longer than that, especially if children are involved. It does get better over time.
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It’s something you can tell your friends to make them jealous, though.
PICS… or it didn’t happen! :nono:
Yowza… I don’t associate marriage with “fun” anymore, but this could make Oprah give up her day job. :o Glad we can be here for ya’!
No pics. Never to be posted online.
As tempting as it might be to satisfy our collective salacious curiosity, this is undoubtedly a very wise and prudent decision on your part.
I have a friend who was photographed with a particular individual in a number of unflattering, to say the least, positions and those photographs ended up on at least a dozen different websites. It can’t be very comforting to know that when folks (or kids and grandkids) do a Goggle search on you, those are the pics that are going to pop up.
Only way they’re going away is if we have some kind of massive global EMP, and even that might get the job done.
The internet… it’s forever!
The main reason I’m not posting them, but not the only reason. I was actually referring of any picture I had with her at all. But you have a good point.