First off, welcome to the wonderful world of handguns. There are a plethora of good posts above, and having read them all, I tend to agree with most points.
What surprises me though, is the common dedication (for lack of a better term) to the Glock 19. You (the OP…or original poster) stated that carry is not in your near future, so I’m a little shocked to see that not more people have recommended the Glock 17. Personally I own a G17, a G19, and an M&P9c with the Apex trigger hardware. I have to say that of those three firearms, I much prefer to shoot the G17 at a range. Believe it or not, I received it as a gift from my father about 11 years ago and I have not tinkered with it in any way. It shot perfectly out of the box from day one, and has continued to do so. I rarely clean it, and even though its an older gun and it shows its age with holster wear, it still shoots as accurately as it did the day I took the tags off it.
Strangely enough, being the oldest and most shot pistol in my collection, the G17 is my bedside firearm and the one I will reach for when things go bump in the night…albeit coupled with a TLR1 light and loaded with Black Hills 124gr JHPs. Why 124s instead of 147s? Just my preference and what I have on hand.
The G17 offers a slightly longer sight radius, and as other posters have pointed out, ALL handguns should be outfitted with night sights. Currently, both my Glocks are wearing Trijicon night sights in green, although the sights on my G17 are showing their age and will soon be replaced with Ameriglo sights. The Trijicons were installed about 10 years ago and are still functional, but as I said, will be replaced soon.
My M&P9c came from the factory with horrible accuracy and a terrible trigger. Long story short…it shot 7" high and 4" left at 7 yards. That was unacceptable by any standards for a HD/carry gun. I contacted S&W via email and sent the firearm back for repair. Turns out their armorer found a poorly machined barrel crown as well as rifling that was sub-par. In the end, I received a brand new match barrel and a free trigger job, in which I had the Apex DCAEK installed at my request by the factory. Minus the cost of the Apex kit, the repair was completely free…including shipping both ways. It currently shoots point of aim, point of impact (POA-POI) at 7 yards…which is what I requested.
I guess what I’m trying to convey here is that you really can’t go wrong with a G17, a G19, or even an M&P9. I have the M&P9c just because it’s my every day carry gun, but since you won’t be carrying, you will probably be more than happy with the full size version.
My best advice to folks contemplating a pistol purchase: go to a range where they rent firearms and fire all three. See which one you like best. I’m sort of an anomaly when it comes to firearms. I shoot my G17 and G19 in IDPA pretty much every month. I’m used to that grip and have trained my muscle memory to remember that grip angle, where the controls are, and how to run that weapon system without even thinking about it. However, my EDC gun is the M&P9c. It’s a little unorthodox. You know, with all that talk about “train with what you carry” and all, but I find that I really do enjoy all three guns.
Welcome to the club, and happy buying!