If you get something like, say a Colt 6920 (NFA legal, M4 pattern), the only thing that will not be interchangeable is the FCG since Colt uses a larger pin size on the trigger and hammer pins. Not sure if that’s what your asking about though.
Here is a vote for an SP I or SP II lower with smaller fire control pins and large front hole. Use the Colt (not DPMS; they tend to shear with use) conversion pin. No mag fence, though. Even with a rare (and expensive) White Box, you might have to use a screw or have the mag fence drilled and the front push pin installed. Use your favorite Colt upper built with a small hole on the upper receiver.