Maybe a Therm-a-rest NeoAir XTherm NXT MAX? That being said, it's not the quietest of pads, if noise discipline is an issue, and at the end of the day, while it might be tough for an inflatable sleeping pad, it's still gonna need some babying. I have the last generation of that pad, and I'm on my second one in over a decade, first one developed a couple of pinhole leaks through the years. It's quite warm, packs down decently, fairly light, but definitely crinkly if you move on it.