From the inside, get a hole and keep shooting through it as best as possible; going to get a lot of little bits coming back at you so if no glasses, be prepared for that. Don't forget to let your mates in the car know as it's LOUD. It doesn't seem that most are expecting you to shoot back before exiting the vehicle so you may get a brief element of surprise.

From the outside, it does vary based on the windshield; general rule of thumb I saw earlier, it'll impact lower than you think from the outside. However, on the plus side, there's a reason vehicles are called "bullet magnets," you can see exactly where you need to correct. "Accuracy by volume" is a term I've heard thrown around when talking about this subject and translates well into actual practice.

For your other list; I know the Barnes rounds, other than the 50 grainers loaded by Black Hills, sheer petals pretty badly through stuff like windshields so it wouldn't be a top choice for me.